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Fairy Secrets

What Does “Fairy Secrets” Mean?

What Are “Fairy Secrets”?

“Fairy Secrets” refers to mystical experiences that miraculously transform a person and their life.

Explaining the difference between Fairy Secrets and other transformative mysticism is difficult. Mystical experiences tend to be indescribable. But my heart recognizes Fey qualities. And it’s not important to state, “This is Fey, and that is not.” In fact, that can cause you trouble. What matters is transformations, respect for otherworldly experiences, and the power they give us to take care of ourselves and Gaia’s children.

By serving others, I don’t mean you have to give other people those experiences. There are other magical ways to help. And help does not have to be magical. Serving others might mean making chicken soup for a sick neighbor. Or patiently listening to a friend who needs to vent. Or helping save a forest. Head in the clouds, feet on the ground. One reason we are gifted otherworldly experiences is because they inspire us to care for ourselves and others. This includes worldly care.

Here’s another way to look at it:

Fairy Gods Give Us Miracles

Fairy Secrets are magic spells cast by the Fairy Queen, King, and Their court to help us out. The spells cause otherworldly events that bring miraculous changes. They can be called “miraculous” because they’re beyond a human’s usual power to create. Or they might have otherwise seemed impossible.

What to Do After the Fairy Gods Give You a Miracle

Often, the changes are permanent, if you nurture them.

Here are some suggestions for nurturing them:

* If the mystical experience provided a spiritual breakthrough, try to maintain spiritual practices.
* If there was a magical breakthrough, try to keep improving and using your magic.
* Serve others. This also helps stop magic from becoming addictive escapism instead of a healthy tool.

What Kind of Change
Can a Fairy Secret Give You?

A Fairy Secret can create freedom from an inner and/or outer restriction that limited you severely and was impossible to overcome previously. The limit might’ve been emotional, societal, or other. It might have existed your entire life.

A person might acquire joy, magic, confidence, money, and fulfillment that everyone, including themselves, said was impossible.

Fairy Secrets Are Not Arrogant Dogmas

I cannot tell you how often I have counseled an individual who was devastated by an arrogant Witch teacher:

A teacher who fosters colonizer culture insists that only a special few can receive and bestow Fairy Secrets. Dogma!

Fairy Secrets are not passwords, whispered to a select few who gate-keep magical power.

Those few usually boast about Fairy Secrets. If they were true Secrets, the boasts would make them vanish.

Those few hurt themselves. Arrogance and dogma close the heart and path to Fairy Secrets. This is another reason that proclaiming, “This is Fey, and that is not” is a problem.

Fairy Secrets Are Not Ideas

Logical words cannot convey Fairy Secrets. Mysteries transcend fixed definitions. However, the Mysteries can be experienced, during major rituals and at significant life crossroads.

Music, poetry, dance, painting, etc., can point us toward Fey Mysteries.

Please note: I don’t usually consider Mysteries and Secrets to be synonymous. I am using them synonymously here. I will point out exceptions. Or context will make them obvious.

Fairy Secrets Are Alive.
All Mysteries Are Alive

Anything alive is ever-shifting. Magic changes from precious, unique moment to moment. Magic is a science with fixed rules, but so is meteorology, and the weather changes from day to day and place to place. Colonizer culture teaches us that everything is fixed, repeatable, and unvarying. Colonizer culture is death culture.

Shamanic culture is the opposite. Understanding life’s constant mutability allows us to see the precious, unique moment.

So, let’s say I experience a Mystery that brings me deep deep inside myself and/or other realms, within moments. And thus I am completely in touch with my power and my life goal. I have been given a wonderful gift. However, it is not an object to gain and own forever. It was a moment in time and requires follow-through. There are many ways that a vision can go wrong afterwards.

For example, I have encountered people who thought their remarkable vision made them superior to other people. Or who used their visions to invalidate mystical experiences unlike their own. Their made themselves and others miserable. This is another reason that “This is Fey, and that is not” is problematic.

Amazing visions are actually quite common. The measure of a person is what they do after a vision. (Sometimes, a mystical experience can go wrong right then and there. That’s beyond the scope of this essay, but feel free to contact me if you need help.)

A Fairy Secret Is Not the Ultimate Goal,
But a Step along Life’s Road

A Witch teacher who buys into colonizer culture tells their students that once you have “the” Fairy Secrets, you have reached the ultimate goal.

In traditional Fairy Witchcraft, experiencing a Fairy Secret is not the end of the road, but a step along it.

We can’t rest on our laurels.

Fairy Secrets are part of life, not excluded to a single moment during which a hierarchical Witch sits on their high horse and deigns to bestow a Mystery.

More about Fairy Secrets as Living Mysteries

The living breath of a Fairy Secret is suffocated by dogma and the arrogant use of words. Fairy Secrets are not specific spellings of occult words, a rule about how to pronounce words, or other dogma. Those who try to trap Mysteries in verbal and prescriptive boxes limit their experiences.

The Fey Folk don’t care whether someone calls them Fairy, Faerie, Faery, or Fred. But they avoid people with arrogant pretensions. … Well, kind and good Fey avoid pretentious people. Evil Fey will gather to harm them.

Finding Fairy Secrets Requires Freedom

Freedom and loving support open a path to Mysteries.

A so-called Fairy Secret that is part of a dogmatic oppressive lesson does not change life for the better. At best, it is a temporary fix.

This is not to say that you cannot learn magical techniques that help you experience Fey Mysteries.

Mysteries Vanish Until You Need Them Again

Here, when I use the word Mystery, I’m not referring to Fairy Secrets alone. When we enter a Mystery, we receive Divine guidance about our challenges and life path. Obstacles clear. Fairy Secrets lovingly surround you, centering you in your magical, miraculous, Fey, self.

If we discover a Mystery that will sustain us through a lifetime, the sustenance will likely come and go. Even if we intellectually remember the Mystery, its vibrancy comes and goes. And it is that vitality that sustains us.

Instead of that lifelong Mystery, I suspect we are just as likely to experience one we need solely to take the immediate steps toward a life goal. Then we receive only the guidance and power that we need in the moment.

The Gods Give Different Fairy Secrets
to Different Witches

Fairy Witches might have Fairy Secrets in common, but everyone has their own as well. In traditional Fairy Witchcraft, what is healthy and profound for one Witch might be unhealthy and harmful for another. Or at least a time-wasting, wild goose chase that derails you from reaching your heart’s desire. So the Fey Gods reveal different things to different people. Fairy Secrets enchant you and your life to provide what you need.

Fairy Secrets and Witch Teachers

A teacher can lead you toward the Fairy Mysteries. You can also find the Secrets on your own.

Going it alone is better than having a teacher who thinks their classes are the sole path to Mysteries. Ditto a teacher who thinks you need to receive all wisdom from them.

A good teacher recognizes that you have your own wisdom. And they surely do not think that their classes are the sole door to miracles.

A good teacher is invaluable support. They can make meeting a Fairy Secret likelier and safer. A mystical experience powerful enough to create a miraculous change can have pitfalls. A teacher can help you avoid them during the experience. After it, a good teacher offers follow-up lessons to avoid problems and maintain the improvement. Again, Fairy Secrets are not the end goal. They are steps in the process of building better lives for ourselves and all of Gaia’s children.

Pointing to Fairy Secrets

A good Fairy Witchcraft teacher points to Secrets, provides techniques to find them, and opens paths, instead of spelling Secrets out. Again, Mysteries are not theoretical explanations. Directing a student’s attention, providing techniques, and opening paths empowers them, because they have to do their part of the work. No one can hand you a Fairy Secret.

That is one reason that rituals can be remarkably effective. In my classes, you don’t have to listen to me drone on theoretically. I lead experiential rituals. They are transformative beauty—ecstatic mysticism that can make worldly and spiritual dreams come true. This paragraph relates not just to Fairy Secrets but also to ongoing miraculous shifts that are part of an enchanted life.

A few individuals wanted me to hand them a Mystery, doing all the work for them, instead of guiding them to their own experience. They were disappointed in my rituals.

There is one way I kind of hand my students Fairy Secrets: During my classes, I give spiritual transmissions as well as lead rituals. However, the recipient still has to do their part. You might think of it like this:

I help people tune into other realms, through rituals I channel and spiritual transmissions. And everyone has to do their part.

It is usually a few simple things, such as having an open mind. And willingness to be in a spiritual and magical process, instead of thinking like a consumer who is acquiring an object.

It is not that I demand that anyone to do anything. For example, you decide whether you will join in a chant. However, simply being in a ritual or magic class might feel silly to someone. If they risk feeling foolish and bear their discomfort, it can give way to childlike delight that makes magic bloom. Risking foolishness is one of the few simple acts needed to open to Fairy Secrets and other miracles during my events.

Fairy Secrets: The Fairy Queen’s breath lightly on my eyes with the Fey King’s kiss on my forehead enchanted everything.—Francesca De Grandis

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Fairy Witch, Francesca De Grandis, is the bestselling author of Be a Goddess!. She is also a star-drenched dragon, lucky charm, star-child, and full-time community Witch for forty years. She uses magic to fight colonizer culture and help wild hearts thrive, in long-distance classes, psychic readings, and healings. Her Goddess spirituality embraces practical magic. Trained from birth in a Shamanic family tradition, her Witchcraft is blessed by ancestors. Her Fairy Witchcraft is also called Faerie Shamanism. European Witchcraft has traditionally been Shamanic for many practitioners. Francesca developed Shamanic theories, methods, and rituals that have been a seminal influence on modern Paganism and alternative spirituality.

Twelve Weeks of Star Magic

Star Drenched:
Weekly Rituals

Be a Shining Star Among the Stars in the Sky

Begins September 20, 2026

Every week for twelve weeks, I will lead a different starlit ritual.

Each ritual is transformative beauty that improves our lives inside and out. Expect ecstatic mystical experiences that can make worldly and spiritual dreams come true. Benefits like prosperity gained with ease. And calm in the midst of a storm.

Important sidebar: Ecstatic mysticism is often associated with drugs. I do not use drugs. We don’t need mind-altering chemicals to enter ecstatic states. Joy is innate to us. It is our inheritance as children of Fey Gods. My rituals walk you through the veil between the mundane world and the gorgeous Fey realms.

We do each ritual together. I lead you through it, step by step. A complete beginner can do it. A longtime Shaman will experience power and depths that meet their needs.

Starlit magic is one of the most beautiful ritual experiences I know. One reason I’m offering this event is to drench myself in starlight. You too.

Starlit enchantments are some of the most beneficial spells—at least the starry material that I channel.

Scoffers insist the starry-eyed mystic chases illusions. Stunning experiences prove otherwise. My starry rites bring me immense worldly results that might otherwise elude me.

Starlit empowerment seems even more important in our impossible times. The rituals nurture me spiritually and increases my worldly success in ways little else does.

The following examples show the wide range of magic that will help us improve our lives. Each magic is also an opportunity to revel in beauty and wonder:

We will do a ritual based on the Milky Way, a swath of stars that arcs across the sky and is well known in lore. I was stunned, twenty years ago, when I came across this painting in a museum:

The Birth of the Milky

Tarot Star card

We will also work with the above Tarot Star card.

As well as with a fairytale about stars. My mother brought the story to life when I was a child in the ‘50s. The experience changed my life, and it still uplifts me.

The rituals will experientially immerse us in the Mysteries of two Italian Gods—Diana Lucifera and Lucifer MorningStar. Lucifera and Lucifer are Latin for Light Bearer. Diana Lucifera is also known as Magna Mater (Great Mother Creator of All). Lucifer MorningStar is widely known as a stellar God. They are also the Italian Fairy Queen and King.

I discovered the above photograph in the ‘80s, in The Great Mother by Erich Neumann. The artistry of this Roman statue, her torch, and everything else in the photo, including the statue’s title—Diana Lucifera—penetrated my core, shifting my entire cosmology.

The above were only examples. There is more. I will gather together starlight rituals I’ve channeled over decades, so we can reap the metaphysical and worldly benefits of the rituals’ power as a cohesive body of work.

Every week’s magic will be significant, and the combination of all the rites together will be even greater. And it is fine if you miss a few weeks, because the weeks you attend will combine powerfully and effectively.

This twelve-week event will not be repeated.

It is a Shamanic journey possible only in the current mystical and mundane landscape.

Also, I can facilitate this specific journey only once because my being is capable of doing it only once. My being was meant to do it one time. Oral tradition is the moment.

Rituals for Weirdos

These twelve rituals are for the weirdest of the weird—individuals like me.

There used to be an expression: The country is slanted, and all the loose nuts rolled to California. Even in the old, wild San Francisco decades ago, I was considered weird by most people there.

My type of weirdos: These rituals are for visionaries who wander in the gorgeous darkness of Mysteries, because it is how they find their way through life. Or visionaries who believe justice and beauty can prevail. Or weirdos because they want to feel the presence of Gods, and not just as rare occurrences, but as ongoing companionship. Weirdos who hunger for more than theories, who long for visceral Fey-touched experiences and cellular knowledge of magic. Weirdos who hope that fairytales and myths will come alive.

Magic in My Cauldron for You

In addition to our weekly ceremony, a spell will simmer in my cauldron to send you peace, success, good luck, and protection.

The weekly spells combine with my cauldron spell for a double whammy.

You Also Receive Personalized Rituals

Magic is personal, not like the estranged mechanistic world. I will channel material for each participant to help them overcome challenges and reach goals. You don’t even need to tell me what’s going on with you.

And More:
One-on-One Mentoring

I’m available by phone for your questions or other concerns about the rituals.

And More:
Book of Shadows Pages

These digital documents add even more power to our spells.

And there is no need to even look at a page until we use it in a week’s meeting.

Every page includes my Shamanic art.

How To Attend

Call the event phone number that you receive after enrolling. You will be joined into a group phone call. You do not need special technology.

Schedule

We meet on Sundays from noon to 1:00 PST, for twelve consecutive weeks, starting September 20.

Reserve the usual hour on Sunday, December 13, for a makeup session in case I’m unavailable for a planned meeting.

Enrollment

The cost is $300 a month, for three months. Your carrier might charge you for the calls.

Your monthly payment covers * weekly rituals * magic in my cauldron for you * an exclusive personalized ritual experience * enchanted Book of Shadows entries * and the opportunity, every week, to be in another world where weird is the norm and celebrated.

Enrollment closes Wednesday, September 16, at midnight and is limited to sixteen people.

Let’s Go! Enroll with the subscribe button below:





If you want more information or to discuss a scholarship, partial scholarship, or trade, phone me at the number below.

I do not give refunds.

A few days before our first meeting, you receive an email with the event phone number and other details.

Fairy Witch, Francesca De Grandis, is the bestselling author of Be a Goddess!. She is also a star-drenched dragon, lucky charm, star-child who has been a full-time community Witch for forty years. She uses magic to fight colonizer culture and help wild hearts thrive, in long-distance classes, psychic readings, and healings. Her Goddess spirituality embraces practical magic. Trained from birth in a Shamanic family tradition, her Witchcraft is blessed by ancestors. Her Fairy Witchcraft is also called Faerie Shamanism. European Witchcraft has traditionally been Shamanic for many practitioners. Francesca developed Shamanic theories, methods, and rituals that have been a seminal influence on modern Paganism and alternative spirituality.

New Fairy Witch Ritual

Magic When You Are Stuck

Magic For When You Are Stuck

Perhaps you tried everything to achieve an important goal but are still stuck. Or maybe you sense there are ways to reach your goal that you don’t know.

Or you feel like you learned all the spiritual lessons that being stuck could offer. So you don’t understand why you can’t move forward now.

Or you tried as well as you could, to no avail.

Or you didn’t have it in you to try hard enough.

Perhaps you’re good at accomplishing things, except for one longing that you cannot fulfill.

Or you are stuck for other reasons. Perhaps you don’t even know them.

Whatever the cause, where do you go from here? Keep reading:

Magic to Remove Roadblocks and Succeed. Clear the Path, Reach Your Goal: A Twelve-Week Ritual with Francesca De Grandis

Magic to Remove Roadblocks and Succeed

Clear the Path, Reach Your Goal

A Twelve-Week Ritual with Francesca De Grandis

Begins August 25, 2026

The ritual consists of one magical spell a week for twelve weeks. Each spell is a major step through obstacles. The spells in combination are even more powerful.

We do each spell together. I lead you through it, step by step. A complete beginner can do it. A longtime Shaman will experience power and depths that meet their needs.

This old-fashioned magic clears obstacles more effectively than almost anything else I’ve experienced. The ritual will draw on profound powers. For example: A major block is a crux in time—a moment when many factors in combination create a junction. Standing at it is a special opportunity in ways that the ritual will reveal.

For one, this junction is a magical crossroads. Fears or past experiences can make someone believe they will remain stuck at a crossroads, unable to choose the right direction. But the ritual will show how crossroads offer remarkable strength and surprisingly easy choices.

Here’s another way crossroads are an opportunity. We will work with three of my Patron Gods, two of Whom stand at crossroads.

All three Gods clear paths, each in Their own way. Their methods complement each other to clear blocks that seemed impenetrable. I have repeatedly conquered the unconquerable.

You will experience first-hand why divination, voodoo, lore, and every other spiritual system give crossroads significant meaning. There is good reason for the voodoo lore about individuals in dire straits going to the crossroads to receive supernatural help. (Despite popular beliefs, it’s not the devil helping them. That rewrite of lore is anti-Pagan propaganda. You will experience the real deal in this twelve-week ritual.)

Candace LaRue: I started a very successful business, helped raise two grandchildren, and got to move across the world to pursue more goals. It was all because I used methods you taught me

ExuOxalaSuccess2026

Like any tool, magic doesn’t always fix things. My life is far from perfect. However, magic has given me happiness and helped fulfill many of my dearest goals. It is possible to achieve substantial freedom and success.

My rituals often cause miracles. I don’t promise to “fix everything” in twelve weeks. However, usually there are at least vital improvements. They tend to lay the ground for even bigger ones.

If this powerful ritual does not create substantial headway toward your goal by the tenth week of the rite, I will give you a psychic reading about how to create the life you want. For example, perhaps I will intuit that remaining at a standstill is necessary to prepare for your goal more, and the reading also reveals what preparation is needed. Or I will have a vision of another goal that will make you even happier. Or …?

The ritual won’t ignore trauma symptoms, oppression, or other challenges. This ritual’s magic is effective. I conquered situations that could’ve crushed my spirit or outright killed me.

ExuOxalaVictory2026

Most participants need to miss a few of the weekly meetings. That’s not a problem. The weeks you attend make a profound difference. Each of the twelve spells stands on its own and might even do the trick by itself. And the magic of whatever weeks you can attend weaves together automatically to create big results.

Plus, if you miss a session, I’ll still do magic for you. Read on:

Magic in My Cauldron for You

In addition to our weekly ceremony, a spell will simmer in my cauldron to send you peace, success, good luck, and protection. It is magic passed down in my family from our ancestors because it works.

The weekly spells combine with my cauldron spell for a double whammy.

You also receive:

Personalized Lessons

Magic is personal, not like the estranged mechanistic world. I will use divination to channel material for each participant to help them overcome challenges and reach their goal. You don’t even need to tell me what’s going on with you.

And there is more:

One-on-One Mentoring

I’m available by phone for your questions or other concerns about the ritual.

You can even call if you want me to expand on a part of the ritual that you found tantalizing.

And more:

Book of Shadows Pages

These digital documents add even more power to our spells.

And there is no need to even look at a page until we use it in a week’s meeting.

Every page includes my Shamanic art.

Marquetta Smith: I have doubled my income!!! Thank you!!!

How To Attend

Call the event phone number that you receive after enrolling. You will be joined into a group phone call. You do not need special technology.

Schedule

We meet on Tuesdays from 6:00 to 7:00 pm PST, for twelve consecutive weeks, starting August 25.

Reserve the usual hour on Tuesday, November 17, for a makeup session in case I’m unavailable for a planned meeting.

Enrollment

The cost is $300 a month, for three months. Your carrier might charge you for the calls.

Your monthly payment covers * weekly rituals * magic in my cauldron for you * an exclusive personalized ritual experience * enchanted Book of Shadows entries * and the opportunity, every week, to be in an environment where loving magic holds your heart and desires.

Enrollment closes Wednesday August 19 at midnight and is limited to sixteen people.

Let’s Go! Enroll with the subscribe button below:





If you want more information or to discuss a scholarship, partial scholarship, or trade, phone me at the number below.

I do not give refunds.

A few days before our first meeting, you receive an email with the event phone number and other details.

Isy: I have a disease that re-wires my brain for pain. It feels like my brain has been worked over by a blow-torch. Since starting class, it’s been getting better than it’s been in years. Years. This *isn’t even supposed to be possible,* but here we are. I’m so grateful I could cry… but I’m too content. My brain is actually healing. Thank you! … I am a bit star-struck because sooo few live up to the hype, but this training really delivers

ExuOxalaPower2026

Fairy Witch, Francesca De Grandis, is the bestselling author of Be a Goddess!. More importantly, she is a star-drenched dragon, lucky charm, star-child who has been a full-time community Witch for forty years. As a ritualist and Shamanic guide, she uses magic to fight colonizer culture and help wild hearts thrive. She offers long-distance classes, psychic readings, healings, and other magical services. Her Goddess spirituality embraces practical magic. Trained from birth in a Shamanic family tradition, Francesca’s Witchcraft is blessed by her ancestors. Her Fairy Witchcraft is also called Faerie Shamanism. European Witchcraft has traditionally been a Shamanic practice for many practitioners. Francesca developed Shamanic theories, methods, and rituals that have been a seminal influence on modern Paganism and alternative spirituality. She’s been jokingly referred to as “the most plagiarized Pagan.” For example, many theories, rituals, and poems she authored are considered anonymous traditional Witchcraft.

New 2026 Event: Money Magic

the word abundance is in calligraphy surrounded by flowers

I want plenty of money, no matter what oppressors try to do to block my financial well-being.

I want to earn money by being of service, no matter what anyone says about that being impossible.

I want work that is serene, ethical, and self-fulfilling, no matter what society says about work having to be misery.

Sometimes, something that would cost a chunk of money falls in my lap, no matter what anyone thinks about that being impossible for someone who lives ethically and did not come from a wealthy background. These windfalls are gifts from the Fairy Queen and King. I want them to keep happening.

I do magic to fulfill all the wishes I expressed above. And it works.

I’d love to lead you in a ritual like that,
for fulfillment, ethics, peace,
and enough money for a nice life:

Abundance and Serenity, No Matter What: A Nine-Week Ritual with Francesca De Grandis

Abundance and Serenity, No Matter What

A Nine-Week Ritual

This is not a class. You won’t have to take notes and memorize them, hoping you might have time to apply them some day.

This is a ritual. It has nine parts: One magical spell a week for nine weeks. We will do each spell together. I lead you through it, step by step. A beginner with no experience can do this.

Every week’s magic will open a different enchanted portal through which abundance, peace, and self-fulfillment enter your life.

Each of the nine rites give you a lot, while also weaving together with the others to make a bigger, extraordinarily effective, magical working.

Miracles can happen during these journeys with me. A nine-week ritual might not turn every last thing around. But my students will vouch that vital headway is made.

The Fairy Queen and King will bless our rituals with Their power. They are the ancestors of Fairy Witches.

Magic in My Cauldron

In addition to our weekly ceremony, magic will simmer in my cauldron for you: A spell to send you peace, abundance, good luck, and protection. It is magic passed down in my family from our ancestors because it works.

If you miss a week, I’m still doing magic for you.

The weekly rituals combine with my cauldron spell for a double whammy. Reviews of my cauldron spells on their own—instead of as part of an event—show how powerful they are, just in themselves:

WOW Francesca!!! … What came to me has been big money.—Kathy Crabbe

So good it was seriously ridiculous! Within a few days, I got a job, a new truck for the exact amount I’d wanted to pay, and sold our old truck without even trying.—Julia

The day after she started the ritual for me, I was hired to teach a college class. That’ll be more than $10K! Also, I applied for a loan forgiveness program and if everything goes as planned, I could have $20K of my loans wiped away! Today, I got a $100 Amazon gift card for a survey I barely remember filling out. Last paycheck, I got a bonus of $1300.—Kathleen

Sales this past month and now are through the roof. A big emphasis I need to make is the new appreciation people had for my work and my creativity.—Agnes de Garron

How To Attend

Call the event phone number that you receive after enrolling. The group meets by teleconference. You do not need special technology.

Schedule

Rituals will be held weekly,
for nine consecutive weeks,
on Sundays from 3:30 to 4:30, PST,
starting May 3, 2026.

Reserve the usual hour on Sunday July 5 for a makeup session in case I’m unavailable for a planned meeting.

Enrollment

The total cost is $200 a month for two months. Your carrier might charge you for the calls.

Enroll securely through PayPal with the subscribe button below:





To discuss a scholarship, semi-scholarship, trade, or payment plan other than the subscription, or if you have questions about the event, call me at the number below. I do not give refunds.

A few days before our first meeting, you receive an email with the event phone number and other details.

The Fairy King and Queen adore you. They want prosperity, happiness, serenity, and all other good things to come to you.

Fairy Witch, Francesca De Grandis, is the bestselling author of Be a Goddess!. Teacher and healer, she offers long-distance classes, psychic readings, healings, and other magical services. Her Goddess spirituality embraces practical magic spells. Trained from birth in a magical family tradition, her Witchcraft is blessed by her ancestors. Francesca’s Fairy Witchcraft is also called Faerie Shamanism. European Witchcraft has always been a Shamanic practice for many practitioners. Francesca’s work has been a seminal influence on modern Paganism. She’s been jokingly referred to as “the most plagiarized Pagan.” For example, Shamanic theories, rituals, and poems she authored are considered anonymous traditional Witchcraft.

What Is Oral Tradition?

What is Oral Tradition?

Oral tradition is spoken communication that conveys ideas, societal customs, and cultural underpinnings such as ancestral practices. Forms of oral tradition communications include folk tales, other lore, and poetry. There are exceptions to oral tradition being the spoken word. For example, live music can be oral tradition.

The above definition of oral tradition is the one most people will see in books and on websites. And it is a good start.

What if that’s not enough for you? What if the term oral tradition calls to you in ways that the above definition doesn’t address?

What if the words oral tradition invoke something wild and mystical for you, and you know there must be more than the common definition?

What if you sense mysteries that are never spoken, but you sense they are in oral tradition?

Perhaps you have another reason that the usual answer to “What is oral tradition?” is not enough for you.

If so, you’re in the right place. That usual and widespread definition is not enough for me.

I’ll give you a larger definition from my heart and bone marrow. I spent years analyzing what I experienced and observed and how to express all that.

Most of this post is theories I developed based on those experiences and observations. Often, the best ways to express my theories are:
* lyrical writing
* storytelling
* sharing my personal feelings
* and other approaches that are far from the usual means of communicating theories.

I put a lot of work into my theories. I take pride in that. I am also proud that my theories come from years of analysis, common sense, intuition, and trust in my emotions.

Telling a personal story is the best way to start a larger definition of oral tradition. I wrote the following in October 2011. I don’t know if I’ve shared it until now:

I get frustrated because I’m devoted to oral tradition, grew up in it, but can’t explain it—it is so foreign to our society. The Fairy Witch classes I teach and the Shamanic counseling I give are oral tradition. But I can’t get across what I do in them because it can’t be explained. It has to be experienced.

When I do talk about what happens in my classes and counseling, it sounds like promotional hype. The classes and counseling sessions are filled with amazing gifts from the Fairy King and Queen and my ancestors. So I try to explain these gifts. They can only be expressed with the passion I feel about them. No dry logic would do. I feel impelled to share these gifts because I love them and want folks to have access to their immense power. But the passion and inexplicable nature of oral tradition make my words sound like promotional hype.

But, wow, despite all that, I am jazzed! Today, I wrote some poetry and prose poetry combined that gets it across a little:

Oral Tradition

Spaces between the spoken word. Tiny gemlike emptiness that can’t be caught on paper. Places and feelings that aren’t captured by memory (unless your cells are teachable. Even then, remembrance fails, your cells need to relearn the lessons). Moments that can’t be duplicated, conveyed a second time, even by the finest performer.

People being—operative word being—together.

We gobble being up
like it is an ice cream sundae;
we each get a spoon—the moment is shared,
we have chocolate running down our chins,
we grin at each other,
even if we are joined together on the phone
instead of in person.
On the phone, we are in person
when we work in oral tradition.

The above gives a glimmer of oral tradition, but conveying a little bit of it is something. If I could describe it fully on paper, it would not be oral tradition.

How to Learn Oral Tradition

If you want to learn the oral tradition of a particular culture, here are three guidelines:

1) Sit with someone who grew up in that culture and loves it.

2) Pay attention to more than their words.

3) Choose someone who is loving to sit beside.

Let’s look more thoroughly at those guidelines:

To learn the oral tradition of a particular culture, sit with someone who grew up in that culture and who loves it. You can be with them in person, by phone, or on Zoom.

You can be with them in a class they are teaching about the culture in question. You can be with them in a class they are giving about something else. You can be with them by driving them to the grocery store.

If all a person does is lecture abstractly about their culture, you’re only learning ideas. Ideas alone do not make not oral tradition.

Not everyone loves the culture in which they were raised. Here’s a story that shows why that matters.

I grew up in a Shamanic culture. It was the culture of my family. My mother came from a centuries-old family tradition of Fairy Witchcraft. And my siblings will swear that my mother was not a Witch.

Their reaction is not exclusive to my family. I disclosed to an Indigenous American Shaman that my mom had trained me to be a Shaman. I refrained from telling him that my siblings did not recognize my mother’s Witchcraft. But he responded that his mom had trained him to be a Shaman, and that his brother insisted their mother had not been a Shaman. I was grateful for his disclosure because it echoed my similarly odd history. I felt less alone in hereditary Shamanism.

Like many aspects of oral tradition, the blindness of siblings to magic that another child in the family sees is puzzling. Here’s the theory I developed. If you do not have love for a culture, you don’t see it. Think of how colonizers look at Indigenous People as uneducated savages, clearly demonstrating that the colonizers are the uneducated savages. That is an extreme example to make the issue clearer. But the problem doesn’t have to be that extreme. I am not suggesting that anyone who doesn’t see magic is savage and uneducated.

My siblings were not tuned to magic, so they never saw it, let alone as a cultural part of our hearth.

Well, I know they saw it sometimes because occasionally they admit Mom’s incredible psychic abilities and Witch spirituality … and then deny them moments later. So in the long run, they don’t admit Mom was a Shaman.

Now to expand on my second guideline for learning in oral tradition:

Pay attention to more than words. Pay attention to gestures, silences, emotions in the air, and how you respond to them.

Oral tradition is not only the spoken word. It is also everything else in the moment.

You will notice how the second guideline weaves with the third:

Choose someone who is loving to sit beside.. Then the gestures, silences, and everything else in the moment will be filled with love, kindness, and compassion.

If someone’s words are mostly ego-ridden, constantly emphasizing that their ideas are important and the only right ones, walk away fast. Find someone else.

Oral tradition is about people being together. So if someone is filled with arrogance, it fills the moment, the air, and you with toxic energy. You are receiving a dysfunctional version of oral tradition. This is one of many reasons I advise you to pay attention to how you respond to gestures, silences, and emotions in the air. When you examine your reactions to someone’s company, you can sense whether they are good company.

Arrogance and pride are not the only toxins that can fill the moment. Just as a loving person adds love, kindness, and compassion to the moment, so a person who harbors hatred brings hate, cruelty, and judgmental condemnation.

Some individuals skillfully mask their judgmental nature and other flaws as the high moral ground. Some individuals mask abusive expressions of anger as righteousness. Anger is healthy. Expressing it abusively is not.

I learned all this the hard way. After Mom died, continuing to train as a Fairy Shaman in oral tradition was almost impossible because I could not find anyone else who taught through an oral Fairy tradition. I finally found one person. There was a lot wrong with him. I studied with him anyway. I justified my decision by thinking that I could handle it. After all, I was already a powerful savvy Witch. I paid dearly. Don’t settle. Study on your own and pray for the right teacher. The teacher will come.

We are all flawed. No teacher is going to be a perfect human. But find a loving one. Note your experiences of the moments when you are with a teacher. That will help you choose someone who is loving. Don’t settle for less.

For full disclosure, I need to admit that, as a young priestess teaching Shamanism, my own arrogance got in the way. Luckily, it did not take long for me to see how hurtful I was. I changed my ways.

A Story about Learning Oral Tradition

The following story illustrates some points I’ve made about learning through oral tradition:

My mother taught me Witch spirituality from the day I was born. But she never mentioned the word Witch until she was on her deathbed. A lot of what she taught was by example. I do not mean I only watched her do ritual. Her mundane actions demonstrated Witch spirituality by embodying it. She taught me Witch spirituality mostly by the way she walked through the world on a daily basis. Here are examples: her business savvy, her excellence in the kitchen, her fierce protectiveness of me, and her loud uninhibited laughter.

Here is another way Mom taught me: I was surrounded by her essence every day. That’s the nature of living with someone. So, even were she not practicing magic, her Fairy energy surrounded me, sinking into me. Therefore, the patterns, rhythms, beauty, and power of her magic became mine.

I want to phrase that a bit better: “Even were she not practicing magic overtly, …” Adding that word is important. For one thing, a lot of oral tradition magic is woven so seamlessly into everyday activities that it escapes notice. For another, everything is magic. Every person on the planet is always doing magic, whether they know it or not. In either case, her magic surrounded me.

Oral Tradition and Magic

Ritual is one of the most important parts of oral tradition. It is also a pivotal way that oral tradition can transmit power.


Oddly enough, most published definitions of oral tradition do not include ritual, let alone include it as one of the main ways to orally transmit ideas, culture, etc.

I think the rituals of oral tradition are often left out of publications for two reasons.

1) Ritual can be subtle, especially in oral tradition. Someone might be praying silently while pouring you a cup of tea. Many anthropologists and other outside observers overlook anything that is not right in their faces.

2) Academics hogged the mainstream dialogue that defined oral tradition. Search “oral tradition” online, and you’ll mostly see academic definitions. If this dialogue included more indigenous groups, working-class people, and other less privileged individuals, a different dialogue and definition would emerge.

Let me expand on the two reasons.

Academia tends to reinforce systemic oppression. Ignoring a non-colonizer culture’s subtleties helps minimize that culture’s nuanced sophistication and its importance. This reinforces arguments that justify eradicating the culture.

Leaving out ritual and its importance in oral tradition minimizes the power that ritual gives its participants. So fewer people turn to oral tradition, not knowing the immense power that it can give them. In other words, academics will say that oral tradition conveys cultural sensibilities. That’s wonderful. But more people would turn to oral tradition if they understood that oral tradition rituals help cultural sensibilities come alive in one’s heart and cells, instead of being ideas alone. Ideas are powerful but the ability to embody them is more powerful. The wisdom of ancestors and other resources that are in our DNA and resist oppression can come forward during oral tradition rituals. Rituals instill other powers too.

People who reinforce systemic oppression do not want less fortunate individuals to find sources of power.

No one has expertise in all oral traditions. This essay emphasizes oral tradition and Shamanism. It is a weaving in which I am expert. Also, I am committed to sharing oral tradition in the context of Shamanism in my classes and counseling. I thought this essay might help explain my work. (… Or should I say “committed to sharing Shamanism in the context of oral tradition”?)

As I said, oral tradition cannot be defined or explained. It can only be experienced. In that vein, I won’t try to fully explain the relationship between oral tradition and magic. The relationship is only understood through experiential lessons.

But if I move away from trying to define the undefinable and give illustrations instead, they might be helpful:

Learning Magic from My Mother Experientially

From birth, Mom helped me strengthen and refine my natural-born magical gifts. Here is one way she did this:

From my earliest memory, Mom wrapped the ancient Faery Faith around me, not as an abstract idea but as a living magic.

This magic was in my Fey-touched mother’s maternal love. All powers are in a mother’s love, including love and magic from the Fairy King and Queen. These ancient Gods helped Mom be loving. Her love is a role model for my behavior in my classes: The words I choose, how I say them, and whatever else I do during and between my words.

Here are more illustrations:

Teaching Magic Experientially

I teach Shamanism as an oral tradition. During class, I am not talking at you. We are in ritual together, in Fairy realms. It is psychically kinesthetic. We walk between the stars and become star-drenched.

The lessons are experiential learning. Mind you, my students learn not only from doing magic and experiencing oral tradition, but also from my linear, logical explanations of magical techniques and other parts of Fairy Shamanism. But even if an explanation on the surface is a lecture, we are in ritual. The explanations are ritual. And as ritual, they too are experiential learning.

I was born a good luck charm and an amulet for peace, prosperity, and more. Good luck, peace, prosperity, and other blessings fill the air around you during a class meeting. Like I said, the energy of the participants fill the space. If you’d like to learn more about my talismanic ability, click here.

Just as my mother taught me Witch spirituality by embodying it, I try to walk my talk in interactions with my students.

Where to Go from Here for Oral Tradition Shamanism

You can learn oral tradition Shamanism, live in oral tradition Shamanism, live in magic, be magic, draw on magic. Here’s how:

Experiential learning: Attend one of my free rituals to experience the mysteries of oral tradition magic. Subscribe to my newsletter for announcements of upcoming rituals. Click here to subscribe.

As I said, you can’t explain oral tradition in print. I wrote this essay in hopes it would affirm your wild longing for something beyond the printed page, beyond dry definitions of oral tradition, beyond equally desiccated definitions of magic, and past the supposedly informed opinions of oppressors. Those opinions are lies. They not only conceal magic and mysticism, but also help suppress and destroy the culture and power of many groups.

Your wild longings are beautiful, holy, and rich with dignity. Your passion for life is blessed by ancient Gods. So mote it be!

Fairy Yule Ritual 2023

In this year’s Fairy Yule ritual, we’ll draw on the transformative powers and other magics of the Yule season.

During the ritual, the Sun King will bless us. He is born on Solstice morning, bringing us hope, empowerment, and tribal connection.


We’ll also cast a spell for prosperity and whatever else we need, by drinking in the season’s wonders and enchantments.

Then there will be a spell to help us help those we care about, whether family, friends, Gaia, all Her children, or …

The event will be via teleseminar—aka group phone call. If you subscribe to my newsletter, you have the information about how to attend.

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Fairy Magic Quest 2023

Cerridwen and Taliesin:
A Ritual Journey
to Achieve Your Sweetest Goals

You can live the Cerridwen-Taliesin myth as a ritual process of
personal transformation and empowerment.

Experience a guided quest with me. Enter the Fey realm of all powers and possibilities. Leave behind barriers that restrict hope and achievements. Even if your barriers seem impenetrable, this event will show you how to fulfill your longings for abundance, soul healing, physical health, adventure, and more.

If you don’t know Cerridwen and Taliesin’s tale, and thus don’t understand my references here, that’s not a problem. I tell the story during the ritual. For now, please enter into the spirit of this post.

Cross the Fey threshold into mythic lands, where you live a revisioning of the Mabonogian tale of crone Cerridwen and bardic-visionary Taliesin.

Win the knowledge in the Goddess Cerridwen’s cauldron, to overcome major challenges—both mundane and spiritual—and know magics that create the life you want. Gain the Fey light that anoints Taliesin’s brow, filling him with inspiration, courage, and down-to-earth savviness. You can be a visionary and practical, and the combination will make your dearest goals come true.

RosesTwineExplore esoteric mysteries in ways that make a big positive difference in your life, spiritually and materially. We don’t have to choose between the two. For example, we can believe we are fairies and create abundance. We can have peace and career success. We can meet our responsibilities and have self-care.

This is a four-month Fairy magic ceremony. It conveys power and wisdoms not available elsewhere. My analysis—or call it a revisioning—of the myth is an esoteric understanding of the story’s elements. I created something so innovative that it generated imitations for at least a few decades—rituals described as similar to mine. My version is the only one enchanted by the extensive shamanic underpinnings that I developed for this ritual process.

My initial development of this ritual of grounded empowerment took three years. Since then, I led the ritual many times for two (three?) decades, continuing to refine it. Now, I only offer it every four years or so. (Last time was 2019.)

This is the first time I am offering this ritual without participants needing to have taken certain classes as prerequisites.

For decades, prerequisites allowed participants to powerfully and safely use this event’s magic to speedily move toward their dream lives.

Then, in recent years, I developed new approaches that work wonderfully for both advanced practitioners and beginning students. The power is enormous, beautiful, and safe. Adepts will receive the advanced experiences they require, while beginners can experience a more accessible route. This occurs because the ritual’s energies will meet people where they are, adapting to their needs, desires, and circumstances, even if those shift from week to week.

This is live magic: hands-on. Vibrant magical power that is the living presence of the old Gods’ love for us. In our mystical voyage, you will get more out of any spiritual and magical work you’ve already done. But if you have no magical background or haven’t tended to yourself spiritually lately, you will never be in over your head during our meetings. Instead, you’re nurtured, empowered, and embraced by a circle of love.

This is the first time I’m extending this ritual to make it a whole four months. I’ve channeled new energies to bring into this ritual, for an additional layer of wisdom and power that meets our current times. The additional time allows us to use the additional material.

Also, as Tania Troyan, a teacher of the Italian language, says, it takes 49 days for new neural pathways to develop and be used. Mark Fischetti and Jen Christiansen wrote in Scientific American, “In 80 to 100 days, 30 trillion (cells in your body) will have replenished—the equivalent of a new you.” A four-month ritual allows you to be embraced by love, power, and support while your cells, brain, and nerves are completely shifting, right to the end. But wait, there’s more! Hahaha.

The work we do will snowball so a lot more growth, healing, shifting, and wisdom come to you long after the four months end.

And I am available after the four months, if you need support with your continuing experiences or have questions about them. I commit to my ritual participants.

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Nuts and bolts:
* We meet in teleseminars (group phone meetings). To participate, just call the event’s phone number.
* The event is on Sundays from 6:00 to 7:00 pm Pacific time, starting October 22, 2023.
* We will skip the following Sundays for the holidays: November 26, December 24, and December 31.
* Reserve Sundays March 3 and 10, 2024, same time, for a makeup session, on the off chance I’m unavailable for one of the planned sessions.
* Enrollment is limited to 14 participants.
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Online Course: Holiday Magic

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Enjoy the holidays, Pagan style. Make your season happy, abundant, safe, sacred, sane, and magical. This course has five powerful aspects:

WhtSnoflkOne) Weekly lessons, delivered to you by email. Each lesson is a digital Book of Shadows entry (PDF), ornamented by my seasonal shamanic art, which makes the Book of Shadows a cherished tradition in the years ahead.

I boiled lessons down to their essence, so they tend to be easy and accessible. They include:

* simple quick spells, prayers, and affirmations, to nourish, energize, and inspire you during the holidays.

* fun holiday crafts and decorations, Pagan-style. Use common household items to make enchanted seasonal decor: charms for just about anything you might wish. Children enjoy these crafts. Also, discover how typical American holiday decorations can be used in spells.

* Special rituals. We’ll experience the Winter Goddess’ sacred realm. Center into wholeness and joy. Enjoy the season’s spiritual beauty. Rites include a star-drenched Faerie Solstice celebration.

* Lots of material to choose from. Pick what you want to use this year and enjoy the rest for many years to come. The course includes powerful Fey-touched material I’d not published previously.

During your busy holiday season, there’s no need to waste time searching online for fun or meaningful activities. This course delivers them to you.

Enjoy unique magics not available elsewhere.

PnkSnoflkTwo) Magical decor: eight digital full-color amulets—my original Pagan art—for harmony, success, and more. Print and cut out to hang on your Yule tree or elsewhere in your home. Four of the amulets’ designs are suitable to display all four seasons, for yearlong blessings.

WhtSnoflkThree) Six audio recordings made especially for this course. Hearing spoken word can be enchanting, and a way you and I can be in sacred space together. So I recite excerpts of the weekly lessons. One recording will be part of the Yule ritual.

Receiving gorgeous PDFs, relaxing to enchanted recordings, and printing amulets are a satisfying, productive use of the digital world, instead of overdosing on social media and online shopping.

PnkSnoflkFour) I’m available by phone for up to 45 minutes. If you have questions about the material, need support because your commitment to the lessons falters, want to further explore a particularly tantalizing part of the curriculum, or have other concerns, feel free to phone.

You can divide the 45 minutes into two or three conversations. Conversations must occur during the span of the course or within a month after.

WhtSnoflkFive) Exclusive gift: I’ll give you a five-day direct spiritual transmission during Solstice week at no extra cost! Free! The price would have been $150. This Yule blessing heals inner blocks that sabotage your happiness, spiritually rejuvenates you, and centers you into what’s important to you. These benefits can last for months if not years.

StarSwirl3November is a turning point in the Pagan calendar. The course starts November 5, with your first lesson. You receive one lesson a week by email for 11 weeks. That will bring us halfway into January.

Post-Solstice lessons provide spells for a great 2024. You also learn how to work with mystical energies that occur in the weeks immediately after Solstice. Years ago, I noticed those energies and spent goodly hours developing related shamanic modalities for significant self-empowerment. Most of the post-Solstice material has remained unpublished till now.

If an unexpected event makes me unable to send one week’s planned material, I’ll extend the course an extra week.

Tuition: The regular price is $209 a month for three months, but I’ve lowered the cost to $167 a month. That is 20% off!

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No experience needed. However, even advanced practitioners will enjoy this. If you need more information, or want to discuss scholarship, trade, or a special payment plan, call the phone number below. No refunds. My online courses aren’t transcriptions of oral tradition lessons. I teach oral tradition by phone. The online courses are special unto themselves—magic tailored to be spectacularly useful, exciting, effective, and safe when learned online.

Lessons are substantive without being overwhelming. You are brought gently and deeply into star-drenched Mysteries that heal, empower, and uplift.

Lessons also help us find joy. Joy is not an extravagance but more important than ever. Even when it is tiny, or we’re striving for it unsuccessfully, it wraps us in the Gods’ love for us. This helps Them protect, heal, and strengthen us. And They become more able to bring us abundance and other material blessings. Embrace Their gifts. Enroll now.